After interviewing gurus that
counsel both men and women on dating, we noticed something that was
quite curious. Some of their dating advice was actually gender-neutral
and could be applied to both sexes. As we see it, good advice is good
advice.
Here are the top five dating tips for both men and women:
Be Open Minded:
The number one rule we have heard from both sides of the fence is to go
into every date with an open mind. Your ideal partner, based on your
personal checklist, may be completely different from the person that you
could be truly compatible with. Everyone has this warped sense of who
their perfect partner should be, but when interviewing countless older
couples who have been married for more than 50 years – their life
partners were completely different from the person they initially
imagined.
Don’t Research Before a First Date:
In these days of Google and Facebook, it’s easy to be tempted to do a
little research before you even go out on a first date. Don’t do it!
You’ll get a false impression of the person, and can make strong
judgments without even knowing him/her yet.
Don’t Bring Baggage:
Avoid talking about old relationships, negative experiences, etc. Have
those conversations only after several dates. There is little to gain by
dwelling on the past.
Be Honest About Yourself:
You can avoid specific topics early on, but don’t lie about things.
Starting a relationship based on lies is never a good idea.
Leave on a High Note:
Keep a first date short, and it’s always better to leave on a high
note. Meeting for coffee or a meal is great, but don’t make long drawn
out plans for another date – excuse yourself and say goodbye. Better to
leave the person wanting more.
Sunday, 27 October 2013
Dating Tips for Men and Women
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